Every workplace has them. The difficult ones that make everyone else's life miserable from 9 to 5 (or whatever).
Dealing with them often takes the tactical savvy of a combat field general.
You may love you job, but just not your coworkers?
Unfortunately, working in a job that involves
difficult or unruly coworkers leaves many people feeling that their only
option is to resign. Not so. You do have other options.
There are a number of
different steps that you can take to deal with problem coworker, while
keeping your job and your income.
Dealing with Difficult Coworkers
Alone
A small conflict may be one that you can handle on your
own; however, more serious problems may call for more serious actions. With
that in mind, one of the first things that you should do, when looking to
deal with a difficult coworker, is speaking with them privately.
When speaking with a coworker that you have a problem with, you will want to
be careful. When this conversation takes place, should it ever, you will
want to be as pleasant and as friendly as possible. Many individuals do not
realize that even a slight attitude can make a problem with a coworker much
worse. If you are frustrated with a coworker who can never seem to get a
project completed on time, you may want to offer to help them create a
schedule. If you have a problem with a perfume or cologne that a coworker
may be wearing, you may first want to explain any health complications that
you may be having due to the scent.
Go to Supervisors or Management
Remember that there extenuating
circumstances that should be taken into consideration. For instance, if you
feel that a coworker of yours is harassing you, in a sexual way or not, you
may want to refrain from speaking to them. In certain situations like these,
those who are unstable feed off of contact from you and others in your
situation. To protect yourself from any harm, you may want to consider
contacting your supervisor right away.
Speaking of contacting your supervisor, if you have discussed your problems
with a coworker personally and you have not seen any positive changes, consider brining your supervisor in on the issue. When doing
this, you will want to use your best judgment.
Work
Related Issues
If you regularly find yourself
performing the duties and tasks for your coworker or if they mishandled
important company documents, you should approach your supervisor without any
question. Mishandled work affects the entire teams well-being and
performance records.
The above mentioned steps are just a few of the many steps that you can take
if you are having conflict or problems with one of your coworkers. As a
reminder, you are advised to use your best judgment when handling situations
such as these.